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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: I dont know what I "am"
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I am currently seeing this girl and plan on marrying her. we have been together a year and have been friends since childhood. She is butch and can only be explained as a guy in a girls body. She has even considered sex change and other options available to her. I have never been with a girl before but I was always friends with gay people and grew up around it. Everyone keeps asking me if I am a lesbian now, and even though I know that it is really no ones business, I cant help but wonder.

Posted:10/23/2010
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Danielle C, Chicopee, MA, United States , 21 , Female , Catholic , LNA , 4 Years of College
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: I dont know what I "am"
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In my opinion, this a decision that only you can make. For example, I am bisexual & I found out when I was 14. But I had felt different about girls since 12. Do yo still have an attraction to guys or is it just for girls? Now, since your girlfriend also wants to have a sex change, do you feel you will still have the same attraction for her as you did now that she is a woman?

I hope you figure it out. I truly do.

Posted:4/19/2011
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Kaelah A., SLC, UT, United States , 20 , Female , Not in any religion , 3 different races. , Bisexual , University Student , 2 Years of College , Lower middle class, none
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: I dont know what I "am"
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In my opinion, this a decision that only you can make. For example, I am bisexual & I found out when I was 14. But I had felt different about girls since 12. Do yo still have an attraction to guys or is it just for girls? Now, since your girlfriend also wants to have a sex change, do you feel you will still have the same attraction for her as you did now that she is a woman?

I hope you figure it out. I truly do.

Posted:4/19/2011
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Kaelah A., SLC, UT, United States , 20 , Female , Not in any religion , 3 different races. , Bisexual , University Student , 2 Years of College , Lower middle class, none
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