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Subject: What's the appeal of sex while driving?
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I once had a woman suggest she perform oral sex on me when I was driving. I declined, although she argued, 'But that's the best time to get it!' I can't see the appeal of sexual acts while driving - having to keep your eyes on the road and your hands for using the wheel and gearshift doesn't sound like it would make for either good sex or safe driving. What is the appeal of things like this?
Posted:7/12/2004
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Al , Atlanta, GA, United States , Male
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Category: Sensitive Matters
Subject: Road head
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Commonly referred to as "road head", it's very common. I love getting it.
There are several factors that make it appealing.
1. The risk of getting caught or someone seeing.
2. The danger involved. Even though I make sure I keep my eyes open and I concentrate hard on the road.
3. Its just a different place and circumstance than the standard laying in bed mode.
Posted:9/2/2009
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Mark A, Mt Clemens, MI, United States
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Subject: Driving experience
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It's all about the thrill and the dangerousness of it. You're correct,it's dangerous and difficult but it's all worth it in the end. As long as no-body comes to an end.
Posted:1/13/2006
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calinda , boston, MA, United States , 26 , Female , Black/African American , administration , 2 Years of College , Middle class
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Subject: Bragging Rights
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I dont think it feels any better or anything, but the appeal of simply being able to brag to your buddies that you got Road Head makes it worthwile.
Posted:1/4/2006
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G , Atlanta, GA, United States
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Subject: both hands on the wheel
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It's dangerous and exciting. Think vouyerism. Just be happy she didn't ask you to make a call on your cell at the same time.
Posted:5/19/2005
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Reesa L. , Ellensburg, WA, United States , 37 , Female , Agnostic , White/Caucasian , Straight , High School Diploma , Lower middle class
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Subject: Nothing
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...Nothing. I've had it done to me and frankly, there is very little inclination on my part to ask for it again. Most guys probably want it just to brag about it later.
Posted:5/15/2005
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J Prado , Los Angeles, CA, United States
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Subject: Getting Oral sex while driving
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Some individuals get heightened thrills doing sex acts when they could get caught or seen by other people. That woman maybe one such person. I don't live in North America but I am pretty sure the American Highway patrolmen will not approve of drivers of moving cars getting blowjobs unless they are the ones getting it.
Posted:3/12/2005
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O Narat , Bankstown, NA, Australia , 40 , Male , Agnostic , Asian , Straight , Government emloyee , 4 Years of College , Middle class
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Subject: Oh! I know this one!
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Is not for all people, but helps some tense guys loosen up.
Posted:1/29/2005
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cuttergirl , middleo'nowhere, NA, United States , Female , Agnostic , younameit , Bisexual , student , Lower class
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Subject: What's the appeal of sex while driving?
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It is spontaneous, it is a little wicked, a little dangerous, forbidden fruit if you will. If you have a lady who offers don't be a dork...try it you'll like it!

Posted:12/27/2004
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Jerry , Jacksonville, FL, United States , 58 , Male , Episcopalian , White/Caucasian , Straight , Retired Business Exec , Over 4 Years of College , Upper middle class
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Subject: Sex while driving
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I have been the beneficiary of this several times and I think it is a combination of thrill seeking and the willingness of a partner to please you. Just keep yours eyes open if possible. Also found it to be great foreplay to fondle my girl while she or I am driving.
Posted:11/29/2004
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Jim , Highland, IN, United States , 54 , Male , Agnostic , White/Caucasian , Straight , High School Diploma , Lower middle class
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Subject: Erotic thrills.
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I wouldn't say so much that it's just in a car. Acts like that tend to be very voyueristic as anyone driving by can see in your window. The other thrill comes from doing something you shouldn't. So doing something so 'naughty' where everyone can see causes big thrills for many people. However, you are right in denying this, as it is dangerous and has led to accidents.
Posted:11/26/2004
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Jake , Houston, TX, United States , 26 , Male , White/Caucasian , Middle class
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Subject: Road head
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A) as always, sex feels good. anytime, anyplace.
B) it's exciting. Some people find that experiencing sex outside the house is a major turn-on. Kinda the exhibition aspect. Also, there's that thrill of 'will anyone see?'
C) she's the passenger. what does she have better to do? fiddle with the radio or suck on you?
Posted:11/26/2004
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Mark , Cleveland, OH, United States , 24 , Male , Atheist , White/Caucasian , Straight , Over 4 Years of College , Middle class
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Subject: fellatio ala the highway
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Breaking cultural taboos, movies where this has been featured, a few urban myths about car accidents where both are killed, but the penis is found lodged in the woman's throat. The sheer thrill of the forbidden! I suppose some men would find it a real heroic challenge to orgasm and still drive--perhaps in a fast car where the price of the thrill is a very real danger. Not being female I can't be sure, but it might be a control issue combined with a desire to perform oral sex. Sex and power are sometimes inextricably entwined. From a strict safety point you are no doubt correct, but don't you have the slightest curiosity about the possibilities? You turned down what many sixteen year old males can only dream of! Between two consenting adults it would not be a big issue. There is a lot of variety in sexual expression that for many people is ehnanced by a little danger--real or even imagined. Hey, it beats those folks who drive and read!
Posted:11/25/2004
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Paul , Normal, IL, United States , 53 , Male , Quaker , White/Caucasian , Straight , university placement counselor , Over 4 Years of College , Middle class, diabetes, migraines, spinal deterioration
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Subject: Playing with His Stick
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Some people like the 'risk' involved. They do not take into account the driving risks because people tend to think along the lines that nothing bad will, or could possibly, happen to them while performing this act or having this act performed on them. It's the risk of being seen by passerby or drivers in cars/trucks taller than theirs. Exhibitionist behavior at its best. That is the thrill that comes from this activity. The adrenaline of doing something so risky can be an ahprodisiac to some. Perhaps you can curb your woman's inner exhibitionist by having sex with her with the curtains open, in the living room, right around the time you think the mailman will be passing through delivering mail or in the car as it is safely parked on the side of the road. Some women just like to see the flustered reaction of their men as they give them such pleasure it's hard for them to concentrate on driving. That's an ego boost. Don't hinder her wild streak, just find alternative places and ways for her to explore it.
Posted:11/24/2004
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Raquel , Houston, TX, United States , 33 , Female , Black/African American , Writer/Journalist , Middle class
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Subject: What's the appeal of sex while driving?
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The appeal on the woman's side is control. You must respond to her attentions but as you MUST drive (VERY carefully) you can't respond with touch, kisses, hugs, eye closing, etc. This intesifies your orgasam (or so I've been told).

For her it's knowing she can drive you wild, give you little breaks and drive you wilder, her choice, her control of your response.

I don't reccomend this in heavy traffic but the rural back roads are less traveled and you can always pull over.
Posted:11/24/2004
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Dee W , Grand Rapids, MI, United States , 49 , Female , Christian , White/Caucasian , Sales , 2 Years of College , Lower middle class
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Subject: hazards make the heart beat faster
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It's the danger aspect. Me and my ex used to love to do that, because it was just so unsafe. It made it about 10,000x more exciting for both of us.
Posted:11/23/2004
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Cydney , Chicago, IL, United States , 20 , Female , Pagan , White/Caucasian , Straight , student/retail , 4 Years of College , Upper middle class
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Subject: Totally Fun
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It is a rush and a thrill to do something different and forbidden. That is why she wanted to do it! Loosen up a bit!
Posted:11/19/2004
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Queen , LA, CA, United States
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Subject: Maybe...
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It's possibly due to the fact that you are using all the spatial and problem solving areas of you brain. This is an area where men excel and perhaps the combination of something so fundamentally 'manly' with sex increases the pleasure. Obviously this is just conjecture, but i think it's reasonable.
Posted:11/9/2004
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Peter , Sydney, NA, Australia , 18 , Male , Taoist , White/Caucasian , Straight , Student , High School Diploma , Middle class
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Subject: sex while driving
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Think it might be a control thing. As you mentioned your hands are not at full speed and lets hope you are watching the road.

Perhaps you can send me her telephone number.

Sounds like a hot ticket.
Posted:9/29/2004
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R Hunt , Lake Placid, FL, United States , 59 , Male , Catholic , White/Caucasian , Straight , Sales , 2 Years of College , Middle class
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Subject: what's the appeal of sex while driving?
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'Road head', as I refer to it, is pretty fun. You shouldn't try it if you cant handle more than one thing at once. I think that my boyfriend enjoyed it so much because it was something forbidden and you could get caught by other drivers. It was also a great way to pass a long road trip. I suggest trying it... we never got into an accident!
Posted:9/26/2004
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Sarah , Albany, NY, United States , 22 , Female , White/Caucasian , Straight , Over 4 Years of College
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Subject: are you crazy?
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Boy are you offline. I have never been with a man who didn't like the thrill of a blow job on the road. It's very exciting for most men. You know : being in control of the horses under the hood and loving the sensation down below.
Posted:9/20/2004
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Robin , Bastrop, TX, United States , 48 , Female , Presbyterian , White/Caucasian , Straight , 4 Years of College , Middle class
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Subject: It's the best
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'Road Head' is the best kind to give! I hate doing it otherwise, but in the car... it's great. If you've never tried it, just do it once... you'll love it.
Posted:9/20/2004
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Susan , Novi, MI, United States , 21 , Female , Catholic , White/Caucasian , Straight , Upper middle class
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Subject: I can't drive 69
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The danger of getting caught. Simple as that.
Posted:9/17/2004
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Taz , Detroit, MI, United States , 33 , Male
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Subject: Sex While Driving
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It's the thrill. The danger of doing something so distracting and so irresistable to most males. There's a certain feeling of helplessness and loss of control for the woman and a need to focus on something else (driving!!!) until the orgasm over comes you. I reccommend a long straight stretch of highway and cruise control. It sure breaks up a long cross country drive!!!
Posted:9/16/2004
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SW , Billings, MT, United States , 50 , Male , Wiccan , White/Caucasian , Straight , Middle class
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Subject: Moving BJ
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Giving and receiving moving BJ is incredibly stupid from a safety point - that said, it is the conflict in concentration that makes for the excitement - sort of like bondage, he wants to cum but it is so hard to cum....makes it intense.
Posted:9/15/2004
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Kiana , Atlanta, GA, United States , 37 , Female , Buddhist , Asian , Straight , Dancer , High School Diploma , Upper middle class
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Subject: Dick Suck Driving
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Getting head while driving is not too bad of an idea. It is erotic because both of you have to worry about xtra obsticals. This shakes things up a bit, especially if you are in a sexual rut. NOT A BAD IDEA UNLESS YOU CANNOT CONTROL THE CAR. SO GET SOME HEAD AND WET THAT PUSSY. YOU MIGHT ENJOY CAR TRIPS MORE.
BRITIFER
Posted:9/14/2004
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Joe Mama , Albequreque, CA, Chile , 86 , Female , Jelsafarian , Swedish/African American\Asain\ Illegal alien , I like houselhold objects including two mattresses , we've been 86'ed , Over 4 Years of College , Upper middle class, Not enough sex in cars
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Subject: What's the appeal of sex while driving?
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There's a level of excitement attached to it that's rather difficult to explain, in my opinion. It's one of those things that you either get or you don't. If the thought of it doesn't give you at least a little bit of a thrill, then it's probably not for you. The appeal is probably very much along the lines of joining the mile high club: you're being intimate in a semi-public forum, with a chance of at least being seen - if not caught - and that adds to the excitement of the act itself.
Posted:9/13/2004
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Kevin , Houston, TX, United States , 35 , Male , Black/African American , Over 4 Years of College , Middle class
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Subject: BJ behind the wheel
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Maybe it appeals to her because it makes her feel dangerous, or give her a rush. Either that or shes's trying to spice it up other places than in the bedroom!
Posted:9/3/2004
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Taylor , Chicago, IL, United States , 17 , Female , Catholic , White/Caucasian , Straight , Student , Less than High School Diploma , Upper middle class
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Subject: More bang for your buck
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It's the thrill of doing something your not supposed to do, and the danger of getting caught. Or, more accurately, getting away with something that is both taboo and illegal.
Posted:7/13/2004
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Taz , Detroit, MI, United States , 33 , Male , Middle class
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