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Question:
I'm a 24-year-old white male who works in a store that deals
with a large number of people on a daily basis. I've noticed that
when I help a black customer who's middle aged or elderly, they're
often very friendly and appreciative, often much moreso than their
white counterparts. However, when I attempt to help a younger black
customer, especially a young man, they're almost always dismissive or
even rude for no apparent reason. Is there an easy answer for the
discrepency?
POSTED 1/31/2002
Ben, Morgantown, WV, United States, 24, Male, Atheist,
White/Caucasian, Straight, Salesman / Customer Service, Over 4 Years
of College, Lower middle class, Mesg ID 129200234122
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Question:
During a legal proceeding (that is why I will not provide name
or city), a case was presented in which a Hispanic male was
co-habitating with a minor Hispanic female. The female was 15 years
old and pregnant by the male. I believe this male is a sexual
predator and guilty of sexual assault on a minor. An attorney present
stated it was 'a cultural thing,' and thus OK. Is an adult male
having sex and impregnating a minor culturally acceptable in Hispanic
cultures? If so, why? If not, please let me know so I can confront
the attorney.
POSTED 1/29/2002
G.T.R., Amarillo, TX, United States, 40, Male, Christian,
White/Caucasian, Straight, law enforcement, 4 Years of College,
Middle class, Mesg ID 129200272554
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Question:
Why are teens so attracted to cars in car shows? Please give as
many details about this interest as possible.
POSTED 1/29/2002
Jennifer, Lawton, OK, United States,
<thestang98@yahoo.com>, 17, Female, Christian, White/Caucasian,
Straight, Student, Less than High School Diploma, Upper class, Mesg
ID 128200274351
Responses:
It is very simple. Cars represent freedom to teens. It is a way
to get away from the confines of their parents.
POSTED 1/31/2002
Matthew, New York City, NY, United States, 43, Male, Mesg ID
131200250117
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Question:
Why is it a big deal for some people to make fun of someone
with disablities?
POSTED 1/28/2002
Melissa, Middletown, CT, United States, 19, Female, Catholic,
White/Caucasian, Straight, Less than High School Diploma, Middle
class, Mesg ID 128200275818
Responses:
For the same reason somebody won't yell 'hooray' at your funeral:
it's insensitive and dishonorable behavior. People with disabilities
do not have life very easy. Many of us complain about bad hair days,
acne, cold sores, broken nails or chipped teeth, but imagine if you
had spina bifida or multiple sclerosis to deal with every day until a
cure was found. These are some extraordinary people who must be very
tough mentally to put up with their daily struggles and difficulties.
POSTED 1/31/2002
Michael F., Chicago, IL, United States, <mfleury@ccc.edu>,
24, Male, Baptist, Black/African American, Straight, Educational
Administrator, Over 4 Years of College, Lower middle class, Mesg ID
1312002123054
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Question:
Why do Puerto Rican girls not like white guys?
POSTED 1/28/2002
da rude, Portland, CT, United States, 17, Male, Jewish,
White/Caucasian, Straight, ADHD, Less than High School Diploma,
Middle class, Mesg ID 128200280949
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Question:
A year ago, my 27-year-old sister Michele dumped her
27-year-old boyfriend after dating him for three years. Robert was a
sweetheart to Michele, who has always been pretty mean to guys. She
admits she treated Robert like dirt. Robert and I always got along
great, but we never hung out much with the same crowd. Then about six
months ago, we started spending a lot of time together as friends.
Now I've fallen in love with this guy, who is sweet, gentle,
handsome, successful (and as I've learned this week, happens to be an
incredible lover). We are in love, and I think this could get
serious. I am 24 and ready to settle down, and Robert is, too. My
parents adore Robert but we haven't told anybody that our friendship
has blossomed into love. My sister and I have never been that close,
but there's a part of me that feels like I'm doing something wrong by
dating and getting serious with my sister's ex-boyfriend. Am I doing
anything wrong, and do you think there will be any long-term problems
with my family if we marry?
POSTED 1/22/2002
Sherry, St. Augustine, FL, United States, 24, Female,
Christian, White/Caucasian, Straight, Student, Over 4 Years of
College, Middle class, Mesg ID 121200271112
Responses:
Ask your boyfriend how he feels about the situation. If your
sister and her boyfriend had sex, there is a bond there that will
last a lifetime. Maybe that is why you are uncomfortable with the
situation. But she said goodbye to him. Your sister's loss is your
gain.
POSTED 1/24/2002
Ronald V., Edmonton, Alberta, NA, Canada, Male, Christian, Mesg ID
1222002112751
I think you're good to go. Your sister didn't care enough then to
beef about it now, and if your parents liked him so much the first
time, they should be overjoyed to have a second chance at having him
around. The only thing I see putting a hitch in your giddyup - if
soap operas are any indication - is that your sister may try to
undermine your love so that she won't be revealed as shallow and
stupid for pushing him away the first time like so much unfinished
meatloaf.
POSTED 1/24/2002
Justin, Chicago, IL, United States, Male, Atheist,
White/Caucasian, 4 Years of College, Lower middle class, Mesg ID
122200234330
Marry whoever you want. You've already got family problems in that
you feel your sister is a jerk. If you don't pursue things to a
conclusion with this guy, you will live the rest of your life in
unrequited love.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Steve, Houston, TX, United States, 45, Male, White/Caucasian,
Straight, Corporate Cubicle Dweller, Over 4 Years of College, Upper
class, Mesg ID 1232002112440
No no no no. All I have to say is, what we have here is a bad
Jerry Springer epsiode. This is definitely a no-no. Even if your
sister treated this guy like dirt and got rid of him, he would still
be off limits. There is a reason she got rid of him, and that is she
does not want to see him anymore. Getting with him is just a bad
idea. I think you should let it go before she finds out. My God, this
is your sister.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Jon, Windsor, Ontario, na, Canada, Male, Mesg ID 1282002124548
Let's look at the facts: SHE dumped HIM, SHE treats men like dirt,
SHE is not close to you. YOU like HIM, HE likes YOU, your parents
like him. What's the problem? Go for it. Chances are she'll get
cranky for about a minute, but considering her past with other men,
it sounds like he'll just be an afterthought, even if the two of you
settle down.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Murray C., Halifax, Nova Scotia, NA, Canada, 33, Male,
White/Caucasian, Straight, Draftsman, Technical School, Upper middle
class, Mesg ID 128200245343
You are not doing anything wrong. It's not your fault that you and
Robert are in love. Love comes and goes; take it while you have it.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Sebby B., Rockyhill, CT, United States, 17, Male, Catholic,
White/Caucasian, Straight, student, High School Diploma, Middle
class, Mesg ID 128200282010
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Question:
I live in Germany and have noticed that a great many Germans
who live around me do not acknowledge any sort of religion. They
don't pray before they eat, attend church or seem the least bit
spiritual. I was wondering why Germans (or some Germans) don't go to
church. I attend a Christian service here in Germany, and we had a
gospel concert downtown. Lots of Germans showed up and enjoyed the
music. I have heard that some Germans love gospel music. There are
many old churches here, but it doesn't seem like religion or
spirituality is part of German culture. Can anyone offer some insight
on this?
POSTED 1/22/2002
Anjela, n/a, na, Germany, 30, Female, Christian, mixed race,
Straight, Over 4 Years of College, Middle class, Mesg ID
121200292737
Responses:
There are plenty of Americans who don't pray before they eat,
attend church or act spiritual, too. In my opinion, it's not so much
a cultural thing as a personal preference.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Stacey, Durham, NH, United States, 21, Female, Jewish, student,
Mesg ID 1222002124652
Germany is one of the most highly educated countries in the world.
Most German citizens have probably moved beyond the superstitious
dictates of organized religion, a natural evolution for a civilized
society.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Rick, Springfield, OH, United States, Male, Atheist,
White/Caucasian, Straight, Over 4 Years of College, Middle class,
Mesg ID 125200265147
If by 'part of culture' you mean weekly church attendance, then
there is only a minority of people religious in Germany. Statistics
indicate only about 20 percent of those subscribing to some
denomination officially (Lutheran or Catholic being the main faiths)
actually attend services or otherwise practice their religion. Thus
an active religious life with prayers, Bible classes and church
attendance is a minority thing. You're bound to raise a few eyebrows
if you pray in public, and bound to be considered immensely odd.
Additionally, church attendance has been dwindling for decades,
though people still pay their church taxes as a means of supporting
charity work done by church institutions. With the unification, a
large part of the population that is atheist by denomination has been
added. However, religious holidays like Christmas or Easter, albeit
secularized and commercialized, feature very much in German cultural
life. In this respect, German culture is still subliminally
Christian. Historically, I think the reason for this development may
be that we have seen in Germany centuries of religious persecution
and bloodshed and have therefore embraced the separation of church
and state very decidedly. Religion is thus a fundamentally private
affair, and rigidly kept outside the public realm, which is entirely
secular. If I remember correctly, at least four ministers of the
current government did not swear their oaths of office upon the
Bible, because they are atheist, and omitted the 'so help me God.' If
you ask around, the court decisions passed a few years ago to keep
crosses out of schoolrooms and courtrooms will be very much on
people's minds still. Religious groups blame secularization for the
fact that religious life has been declining; the argument runs that
what has become publically invisible does not exist anymore in
people's awareness. Personally, I think that the failure of the
churches to come to terms with Nazi rule and live up to their own
loud-mouthed ethic may have had something to do with the fact that
people in Germany tend to ignore religions. Add to this that the
religious worldview has been largely superceded by scientific
understanding, and people will be aware that metaphysical entities
(saints, angels and devils) and an almighty creator are somewhat
anachronistic concepts.
POSTED 1/28/2002
T., Munich, NA, Germany, 32, Female, Atheist, Over 4 Years of
College, Mesg ID 125200274747
Throughout Europe, few people go to church. It's the same in
Australia, where I live. In these countries, most people understand
that the Church and its stories are wonderful interpretations from
the past of why we exist. But they alone tell us little about our
relations today. The real question is why do Americans go to church
in such large numbers? Don't they understand that these are just
stories?
POSTED 1/28/2002
Kent, Melbourne, NA, Australia, 60, Male, Episcopalian,
White/Caucasian, Over 4 Years of College, Middle class, Mesg ID
1282002114929
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Question:
On Martin Luther King Jr. day, my place of employment served
pork ribs, greens, cornbread and fried okra. I was surprised at this,
thinking this was stereotyping African-American food. What is the
difference between serving this fare and serving watermelon? Is it
the negative connotation associated with watermelon and the 'Jim
Crow' days? I would like to get African Americans' take on this. Do
you feel it is an honor, or is it demeaning for this country food to
be served on MLK Day?
POSTED 1/24/2002
Martha, Davison, MI, United States, 40, Female,
White/Caucasian, health care, 4 Years of College, Middle class, Mesg
ID 123200283436
Responses:
I don't know what 'ethnic' food has to do with a holiday
celebrating the life of a civil rights leader. Martin Luther King Jr.
stood up for rights and the dream of people to be treated fairly in a
society that we all share. I probably would have been offended if I
worked there. Martin Luther King Day is for all people who believe in
civil rights and diversity. It's not a 'black thing.'
POSTED 1/29/2002
Samm, Boston, MA, United States, 37, Female, New Age/Metaphysical,
Black/African American, Straight, Artist, 2 Years of College, Middle
class, Mesg ID 129200295301
Isn't drinking and wearing green on St. Patrick's Day just as
prejudiced?
POSTED 1/31/2002
C.C., Somewhere in Canada, NA, Canada, 22, Female, Asian, 4 Years
of College, Upper middle class, Mesg ID 1312002102224
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Question:
How can white men lust after Asian women they apparently hate?
I'm a big fan of Asian porn because I find the women very beautiful
and sexy. But I can't stand the American-made porn films that feature
Asian women. It always shows white men with them, never Asian men,
unlike black women who usually are with black men in porn. The white
male porn stars are incredibly racist, calling them things like
'yellow sluts' and making racist comments about whites being better
than Asian men. The titles of the movies are incredibly racist too.
Why (besides the money) do these Asian women put up with it? Do they
have really low self-esteem? I can't imagine black women making films
with them being called n****r sluts. And have any Asian women had to
deal with this kind of thing in real life when they date white
men?
POSTED 1/21/2002
Porn lover, n/a, ID, United States, 22, Male, White/Caucasian,
Mesg ID 120200215858
Responses:
99.9999 percent of the real women in the world wouldn't put up
with any of the abuse that porn actresses fake enjoy on screen. Most
men know this and wouldn't think to try it in real life. Regardless
of what race you are, once you cross the boundary and are willing to
let paid men ejaculate on your face, it is unlikely you are going to
care all that much about what they say while doing it or what they
name the movie.
POSTED 1/24/2002
Steve, Houston, TX, United States, 45, Male, White/Caucasian,
Straight, Corporate Cubicle Dweller, Over 4 Years of College, Upper
class, Mesg ID 1232002121320
I don't think porn featuring Asian women and white men is any more
degrading than most other interracial porn. I admit that I haven't
seen a lot of it, but what I have seen has covered a pretty wide
spectrum - Asian women/white men, black men/white women, black
women/white men. In these instances, the subject matter appeals to
the basest prejudices society holds against each person involved. You
rarely see a black woman being lovingly caressed and kissed and all
the other stuff when the man is white. Usually, it's some kind of
gang-bang scenario, or lots of rough, cold, 'Tthis woman's an animal!
Can't get enough!' kind of garbage that's plagued black women
forever. With white women and black men, it's usually some kind of
mandingo warrior conquers the tender white maiden with his anaconda.
I know that different companies have different signature styles.
Maybe the ones you've been getting are geared toward the base
prejudices and taboos of society. All in all, I think all porn is
degrading. Race doesn't really mitigate anything.
POSTED 1/24/2002
Jennifer, St. Paul, MN, United States, 31, Female, Christian,
Black/African American, Straight, Non-profit, 4 Years of College,
Middle class, Mesg ID 1232002122729
It's kind of revealing of the contemporary male psyche that
American-produced porn featuring Asians offends you because it has
overtly racist overtones, presumably because:
1) Without the racist overtones it's simply mysogynist, and
2) While your fetish for Asian women is based on the stereotype of
them being aquiescent concubines who arrive from pre-pubescence eager
to sexually gratify men (a stereotype largely advanced by Asian men),
at least you don't call them 'slant-eyes,' right? That would be
offensive.
This is the legacy of 'PC' - people think lightning will strike
them if they say the 'N' word, but that fear doesn't open their eyes
any wider.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Justin, Chicago, IL, United States, Male, Atheist,
White/Caucasian, 4 Years of College, Lower middle class, Mesg ID
122200243607
I believe that amidst all the action, porn is actually
make-believe, as in the guys in the movie would do things most guys
usually don't do in real life, like degrading a woman and calling her
names. No, Asian women don't have to deal with these things in real
life when dating white men, as these men are usually gentlemanly and
loving.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Andrea, Singapore, NA, Singapore, 22, Female, Asian, Student, Over
4 Years of College, Mesg ID 127200272324
I have no idea why these Asian women do that, either. I'm Asian
myself and would never do that. That's way too ghetto!
POSTED 1/28/2002
Cheerie, n/a, CA, United States, 19, Female, Christian, Asian,
Straight, student, 2 Years of College, Middle class, Mesg ID
128200224658
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Question:
Why do African Americans continue to complain about
discrimination when I feel that the role has reversed to white
Americans? For example, I'm an avid reader, and in numerous novels
with black characters, they make derogatory comments concerning
whites. In the book How Stella Got Her Groove Back, Terry McMillan
speaks about an old white man lusting after her body. I can not quote
this exactly, but feel free to look it up. Why is that? Black people
have cable channels, scholarships, months of remembrance, and the
list goes on. I think the African-American community would be
outraged if we specified a scholarship to be eligible for white
students only. I believe that everyone should realize that we are all
discriminated against. Isn't it time that we continue to remember
slavery but get off the bandwagon with the rights issue? We all have
the same rights, and for every job you don't get because you are
black there is someone who isn't getting a job because they are white
or brown, etc. Does anyone else feel like this?
POSTED 1/21/2002
Monica A., Fort Worth, TX, United States, 23, Female,
Christian, White/Caucasian, Straight, Homemaker, Technical School,
Middle class, Mesg ID 120200223749
Responses:
Get some information on institutional racism and white privilege
and your world won't look so bleak.
POSTED 1/24/2002
Leah, Halifax, Nova Scotia, NA, Canada, Mesg ID 1232002113717
As one of those brown people who (in addition to whites) you worry
are not getting jobs because of blacks, let me say that I don't feel
that to be the case. Institutional racism such as the old boy
networks and hiring practices keep us from getting jobs, not blacks
seeking protection from discrimination. We face many of the same
issues as blacks, and while there is prejudice against blacks among
many Latinos, I don't want anyone using us as an excuse for
employment anti-discrimination laws to end. After all, the law
protects brown people as much as blacks, and guess what? The law
protects whites against discrimination, too. Don't you know about the
Bakke 'reverse discrimination' case? The idea that whites lose a lot
of jobs to affirmative action is largely a myth. The actual cases of
that happening are rare and highlighted by resentful whites way out
of proportion to their actual numbers. Incidentally, did you see the
Sixty Minutes piece on a "Whites Only" scholarship in a Southern
state at a historically black college?
POSTED 1/28/2002
A.C.C., Phoenix, AZ, United States, Male, Mexican and American
Indian, Mesg ID 122200293017
I think many African Americans justify hostility toward whites
with the claim that discrimination by blacks does not adversely
affect whites to the point that they are denied jobs, education,
housing, etc., being that they do not hold enough positions of power
to make such discriminatory decisions. However, this opinion fails to
recognize the pain and turmoil suffered by those who are harrassed -
whether white on black or black on white. And many, who claim to
resent being denied jobs or education due to their color, are more
than happy to take jobs or academic scholarships that are given to
them solely on the basis of race - on the grounds that they or their
ancestors suffered and they are only being 'compensated.'
Unfortunately, this issue will never be resolved as long as there are
white people who are willing to deny opportunity to blacks, and as
long as there are black people who want something for nothing.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Lucy, Los Angeles, CA, United States, Female, 4 Years of College,
Middle class, Mesg ID 122200245928
These are some of the attitudes I have encountered from African
Americans:
1. Derogatory comments from blacks about whites is not a problem
for whites because blacks don't have enough social power to deny them
anything (tell this to a white kid being bullied by black kids
because he's white).
2. Whites have been privileged for so long that this 'favoritism'
needs to be rectified (tell this to poor white kids who've never had
a chance in life due to their extreme poverty and lack of social
connections).
3. The issue of slavery must never be forgotten and must be
discussed ad nauseum at every opportunity to explain everything and
anything (tell this to Jews, Asians, etc., who seem to be filling
colleges and CEO positions rapidly despite their oppressive
histories).
4. For every job a black person is given because they are black,
there are hundreds denied jobs because they are black (maybe there is
some truth to this statement, but more often than not, it's likely to
be ghetto types who are using racism as an excuse for not getting a
job rather than dealing with their own lack of manners and verbal
skills.)
POSTED 1/28/2002
Janis, n/a, FL, United States, Over 4 Years of College, Mesg ID
122200252515
Why do African Americans complain about discrimination when
discrimination has been reversed against whites? How has it been
reversed? White Americans can live where they like without any
problem. They can drive around without being looked at by police,
while black people can't. They can meet in large groups and no one
will say anything, while blacks can't. In fact, there's a lot we
can't do. As apparent in New York, an African American can't even
pull out his wallet without being shot, so I don't see how that role
is reversed. As far as the book How Stella Got Her Groove Back, you
said there were derogatory statements made toward white people. Are
you kidding? It's not like white authors haven't done the same thing.
You're wondering about so-called reverse discrimination when all that
this country sees is white, from books to most of the shows on
television. We have BET while 96 percent of other channels are
white-owned. Months of remembrance? One month of February. Most of
the other holidays celebrated in this country are white holidays:
Labor Day, Columbus Day, Memorial Day, etc. Outraged about a white
only scholarship? Please spare us the drama. We won't be outraged and
haven't been for a long time. You have some people in this country
who get in schools exclusively because they are white with money, or
because it's some family tradition that a sibling from a certain
family goes to the same school. And if it were up to Southern whites,
black people would be continuing to be minions to their white
counterparts, meant to serve instead of learn. I suppose that's
supposed to be OK, too? I've never heard of a black man owning a
plantation while whites are working the fields picking cotton. Sure,
we are all discriminated against, but there is no comparison to how
African Americans are discriminated against. You can pull up all the
books, shows, cable channels you like, but there is still no
comparison. Minorities period, not just blacks, still don't have the
same rights as the white majority, and we probably never will. You
make is sound like white people are underprivileged. You all are not;
your very skin color is your privilege.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Marco, Chicago, IL, United States, 27, Male, Black/African
American, Straight, 4 Years of College, Mesg ID 122200270013
Why DO Afican Americans complain? Why should they complain in the
workforce when they make a whopping 60 some cents to every white
person's dollar? Why should they complain when thousands of their
ancestors have worked, fought and died for a country that still has
yet to recognize that they are not being treated fairly? Why shoud
they complain that they have only minor sections in history books
when they helped build kingdoms? Why should they complain when they
have the shortest month of the year alloted to them to celebrate
their elaborate history? Why should they complain that inner-city
public schools (where many of their children attend and where many of
them are concentrated) don't give them sufficient funds to supply
their children with adequate and equal schooling to white suburbs?
Why should they complain about people not wanting to admit that the
nation owes them? They have every right to complain about the
injustices that take place on the educational, economic and political
levels. They have every right to make as much noise as they need to
to get heard by those who run this country. They have the right to
make people acknowledge what may never be put into history books.
They have every right to feel a little perturbed that although 'you
all' say that the glass ceiling has been broken for them, the
statistics constantly show whites ahead of the game in most aspects
of society. They have a right. I have a right. Is it OK for me to
have gone through 13 years of public schooling and know more about
Anglo history than my own? Why should it be so hard for me to get
educated African Americans and their accomplishments? You think about
this. You do some role reversal. The civil rights movement is not
over. Not until the black dollar equals the white dollar. Not until
people like you recognize that hundreds of years of oppression,
neglect, scrutiny, lies, murder, inhumanity, degradation, etc. isn't
made better by affirmative action or a few new laws. Mindsets must be
changed - starting with yours.
POSTED 1/28/2002
Blake, Philadelphia, PA, United States, 19, Female, Christian,
Black/African American, Straight, Student, 2 Years of College, Lower
middle class, Mesg ID 124200263758
If you are equating a fictional black woman's complaints to the
several centuries of economic, judicial and social discrimination
that black people have confronted at the hands of white people in
this country, then you have very warped views of what it means to be
discriminated against. That said, black people have special
institutions like cable channels, magazines, scholarships, etc.
because they are a group that has been historically excluded from
mainstream society. White people - as defined by racial
characteristics - have not been excluded from very much in this
society; they define 'mainstream' simply because they are the
majority. Thus, 'special' institutions serve no purpose for them
other than to exclude people. Black people also have a unique
culture, just as ther ethnic groups - like Irish, Italian, German and
Mexican Americans - have their own culture. These groups have
'special' institutions like beauty pageants, cable channels/shows,
and scholarships. Unless you're calling for all ethnic groups to
disband their organizations and institutions, I see your rant against
black Americans as unfair.
POSTED 1/28/2002
T.R., Newark, NJ, United States, 24, Female, Over 4 Years of
College, Mesg ID 1262002120859
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